Women are typically there to dance to music that does not encourage them to grind with you, as reggaeton does. Or maybe try going to the theater or other cultural events.My friend Tatiana, the pretty and popular receptionist at The Wandering Paisa, met her boyfriend while she was waiting to see a play. You can’t really expect a woman to be on time in Colombia.Although my own experience of dating in Colombia is really pretty limited (sob), I’ve canvassed friends of both sexes and have compiled a brief list of tips for him and tips for her in order to avoid heartbreak, dodge the STIs and have yourself a merry little Christmas.Girls are very unlikely to approach you, or make the first move.As I mentioned in my last article, male-female platonic friendships are considered far less common, particularly if the pair in question are single.So, even while you’re not in a relationship with someone just because you went on a date, it’s important to know that going for a casual drink with a guy would be considered a date in Colombia.Sign up now for 7 days of expert tips that will instantly transform your Spanish!
As with any other multicultural relationship, there can also be some challenges, or thins that you haven’t experienced before in past relationships.
I’m simply going to tell you some of my experiences in nearly three years living here, as well as information I’ve gathered from friends, both Colombian and foreign, men and women, and then you can decide what you want to do with it. I’m not saying it can’t happen, I’m just saying it’s less likely. Now that I think about it, it’s not all that different here. Other people have had success with online dating sites.
If you are planning to meet a woman at a club, a salsa club is probably the best kind of venue. My favorite avenue is through mutual friends, a situation that makes me feel most comfortable.
What I know is this: finding out if you’re compatible with a Colombian woman can be a complicated endeavor, just like it can be anywhere.
There is no one way to woo one of them, because of all the variables. During my time in the states, more often than not, Ryan attempt to talk to a woman at nightclub = rejection.